Private Lenders

Tracy Head • January 24, 2025

The easy fix isn’t always the right fix.

I’ve been wondering how long it would take to see the fallout as clients who have been paying really low interest rates come up for renewal. 


We have all experienced a steep increase in the cost of living. Even though rates now are sitting where most clients qualified with the stress test when they originally got their mortgages, for many people life has happened in the meantime.


What do I mean by that?


Often clients are having to push right to the top of what they qualify for just to get into the housing market. As we are going through the mortgage approval process we talk about keeping big consumer purchases (financing a car or furniture as an example) to a minimum as additional loan payments reduce borrowing power.


Once clients are into a home life does indeed happen. The older car dies and a new car is necessary. Little ones come along and that can affect family income and add a daycare bill to the bottom line. Property taxes increase. Grocery prices skyrocket. You know the list.


Balances start creeping up on credit cards or lines of credit. 


There are lots of different mortgage products to help with consolidation of debt. Lately the challenge has been that even if clients have significant equity in their homes with the increased interest rates they may not qualify with traditional lenders.


Alternative lenders and private lenders come into play as options in this case. I’ll leave the alternative lenders to another day because I have a cautionary tale about private lenders.


Not all private lenders are created equal. I have several that I work with when my clients need a solution in the private world.

There is a time and a place where a private mortgage is the ideal fit. As long as you have an exit strategy (a plan as to how it will be paid out in a relatively short time frame ie: one year) this can be a great option for clients.


Then there is the private lender that hurts my heart.


Heavy catchy marketing bombards us from multiple venues. Their jingle is running through my head as I write this. For them the bottom line is that if you have adequate equity in your home you are approved.


Cool. That fixes the immediate problem. However, more times than I like to think about, this lender creates far bigger problems for people.


Despite the fact that you have equity in your home you still have to make the payments on these private mortgages. Interest rates are usually around the 14% mark so payments are high and you are not making any headway with paying down the mortgage.

If there is no significant increase in your income you struggle and find yourself in a financial bind again. They set up another mortgage with an even higher rate.


When you sign on for a private mortgage your are responsible for covering your legal fees, the lender’s legal fees, and there is also a lender fee that is included. Even a small private mortgage can end up costing almost $10,000 to put in place.


If you couldn’t cover expenses with your first mortgage (at reasonable rates) guess what happens when you start adding in more and bigger payments on top of your normal expenses?


For most people the only out at this point is selling their home.


That is a very hard conversation for me to have with clients, especially when they’ve been in their home for many years.


If you are finding that there is more month than money, sitting down and reviewing your expenses is the first step to take. Are there any areas that you are able to cut back? Do you have any options for increasing your income?



If the answer is no, talking to a mortgage professional sooner rather than later may help identify some options before you end up in a never-ending cycle of sleepless nights and missed payments.

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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So Your Mortgage Is Approved

By Tracy Head • March 6, 2026
So Your Mortgage Is Approved… Now Don’t Break It By the time a buyer gets the call that their mortgage has been approved, the reaction is usually somewhere between relief and a sudden urge to celebrate like they’ve just won the Stanley Cup. After weeks of paperwork, bank statements, document requests, and answering questions about that mysterious $73 e-transfer from your cousin, you’ve made it to the home stretch. But here’s the thing many buyers don’t realize: a mortgage approval isn’t the finish line. It’s more like the last lap before the ribbon. And in this final stretch, there are a few things that can still trip you up if you’re not careful. As a mortgage broker who has watched this happen more times than I care to admit, allow me to offer a friendly list of things you absolutely should not do between mortgage approval and possession day. 1. Do Not Finance a New Car (Even If It Smells Amazing) You might think, “What better way to celebrate a new house than with a new truck in the driveway?” The lender disagrees. Taking on new debt before your mortgage funds can change your debt ratios, which were carefully calculated to get you approved in the first place. I once had a client proudly tell me about the brand-new SUV they bought the week before closing. Unfortunately, the lender was less impressed. Celebrate later. The house comes first. The new car can wait. 2. Do Not Quit Your Job to ‘Follow Your Passion’ I’m a big supporter of people chasing their dreams. But if your dream involves leaving your stable salaried position to start a kombucha brewing company three days before your mortgage funds… perhaps give that dream a couple more weeks. Lenders like stability. A sudden career change can send underwriting departments into mild panic mode. 3. Do Not Open New Credit Cards for Furniture, Appliances, or “Just in Case” It’s very tempting. You walk into a furniture store, see the perfect sectional, and suddenly there’s a cheerful salesperson offering “12 months no payments!” It sounds harmless, but that new credit line can affect your credit score and your debt calculations. Also, you may be shocked to learn this: the house will still accept furniture purchases after you own it. 4. Do Not Move Money Around Like You’re Running an Offshore Hedge Fund During the mortgage process, lenders carefully verify where your down payment and funds are coming from. If large, unexplained deposits suddenly start bouncing between accounts, it can raise questions. Questions lead to paperwork. Paperwork leads to stress. Stress leads to calling your mortgage broker at 9:45 p.m. Keep things simple and predictable until the deal is done. 5. Do Not Co-Sign a Loan for Someone Else You may be the generous type. A friend or family member might ask you to co-sign for a car or a line of credit. As noble as that is, lenders will treat that new obligation as your debt too. Even if your cousin promises they’ll “definitely make the payments.” Your lender prefers promises backed by math. 6. Do Not Miss Any Bill Payments Your credit report was likely pulled during the approval process, and lenders sometimes check again before funding the mortgage. A missed payment can ding your credit score at the worst possible moment. In other words, now is the time to be the most financially responsible version of yourself. The Bottom Line Once your mortgage is approved, the best strategy is surprisingly simple: keep everything exactly the same until your home officially closes. Same job. Same credit habits. Same bank accounts. Think of it like carrying a tray of drinks across a crowded room. You’re almost there—now is not the time to start dancing. The good news? Once the keys are in your hand and the deal is finalized, you’re free to celebrate however you like. Buy the couch. Paint the walls. Host the housewarming party.  Just maybe hold off on the kombucha startup for a week or two.

Reverse Mortgage follow up

By Tracy Head • February 23, 2026
Not long after my last column about reverse mortgages went live I received a thoughtfully written email from a reader challenging several of the points I made in my article.  He raised concerns about the cons around reverse mortgages and said he felt that I wasn’t diving into the potential negative impacts of reverse mortgage products. Most of the concerns boiled down to the erosion of equity in seniors’ most significant asset due to the compounding of interest over time. He felt that I didn’t show any calculations so people would not see the long-term cost of a reverse mortgage. When I work with my reverse mortgage clients I show them projections that include the interest cost. What people may not consider is the appreciation in value of homes over time. Reverse mortgage lenders don’t automatically go to the maximum allowable amount for every client (ie: “up to 55% of the value of the home”). Mortgage size is determined by the age of the client and the type and location of the home that they are in so as not to erode all of the equity in the home. Mortgages are done on a sliding scale so the younger they are the less equity clients have access to. The other piece to understand is that not every client pulls the entire amount they are approved for upfront. I encourage my clients to only pull what they require at the time and to have the rest available for if and when they need it. Initially I was not a huge fan of reverse mortgages for a lot of the reasons that he shared. However, I have many clients who are house rich with very limited income. People living on CPP and OAS can’t afford the basic necessities never mind any frills. Which leads to another reason I see the value in reverse mortgages. Many of the clients I work with have overextended themselves using credit cards or personal lines of credit and are in the position that they are making the minimum payment on their credit facilities by applying for more credit cards or loans, which leads to a spiral of increasing balances month over month with no way to repay these debts. Downsizing doesn’t always work because moving to a smaller home often means now they have a strata payment. Even if they downsize and have cash in the bank to cover living expenses, the end result is that they are still eroding that equity and now are not in the home they spent their lives in. I’ve seen reverse mortgages impact seniors in positive ways that you can’t even imagine. I’ve had clients supporting their middle-aged children while not having money to buy groceries. I’ve worked with clients who have needed to renovate their homes for accessibility issues due to health concerns as they age. I’ve seen clients leverage the equity in their homes to buy vacation homes. There are many types of clients who use reverse mortgages to achieve their financial goals. I do find that some of the loudest objections come from the families of clients. In these situations I first ask my clients if their families know the true extent of their financial distress. Next I ask if they would like to include trusted family members in the conversation so that we can address any concerns so that everyone is on the same page. Not all reverse mortgage clients are naïve. Many have already done their homework before they call.