Emotional Mortgaging

Tracy Head • May 19, 2023

For the last few months I have felt a bit of a return to normal in the mortgage world. Fixed rates have

been trending down and we’ve seen some great rate specials available. More importantly, it has felt like a more balanced market where people are taking a bit more time to do their due diligence and make more educated and thoughtful (as opposed to emotional / panicked) decisions about their home

purchases.


The last few weeks I’ve felt a subtle shift. The housing market is starting to heat up a little, in that I’ve seen a few situations where there are multiple competing offers. Inventory still seems a little low which is likely fuelling  this. I have been dealing with two families that have taken completely different approaches. The first family is looking to right-size their home and move from a condo to a single family home. They already have two littles and a third on the way. They are wanting more space and a better neighbourhood to raise their children in.


They wrote an offer on a lovely home before they looked into their mortgage options. They came to me with an accepted offer and are madly in love with the home they wrote the offer on. They are willing to move heaven and earth to make it happen. The challenge is that they have not had an offer on their condo yet. They both make great income and have investments that will cover the necessary down payment. The trick is that if they have haven’t sold and have to move forward with their purchase they will have to use a private lender to make it happen because their ratios are too high carrying both properties.


Two years ago I might not have been so concerned but with the market being a bit slower there is

significant risk that their condo might not sell in the time frame they need it to.


If this happens and they choose to go the private lender route, they are looking at roughly $20,000 in

fees and closing costs and an interest rate of ten per cent. Monthly payments are $4400.00. They will not be able to rent out their condo because of restrictions in their strata. With strata, property taxes, and their mortgage payment they are looking at about $2600.00 per month. If they end up having to carry both of the mortgages for more than a few months they are going to burn through their savings very quickly. They may end up having to drop the price of the condo significantly which means they might take a loss on the condo as their mortgage balance is close to the break even mark after realtor fees.


They are determined to move forward regardless and quite honestly it concerns me. Another family I am working with has taken a different view. Similar situation and they can more than cover both mortgages if they have to. They have done a very thoughtful analysis of their finances and lifestyle and have taken the approach that it will all come together if it is meant to, and that if their current home doesn’t sell they will not put themselves in jeopardy to buy this particular home.


This approach makes me much more comfortable. What is the danger in the first situation? If for some reason they do move forward and their condo doesn’t sell for several months I don’t think they will be able to afford the payments on both homes. If they fall behind they will have no buffer left and could potentially end up in foreclosure. Maybe it doesn’t get that drastic, but the stress of carrying both properties will be overwhelming.


Before you write an offer on a home, I cannot stress how important it is to connect with a mortgage

professional to get your financial ducks in a row. Knowing what you qualify for (and if you qualify for

that matter) and the costs of making a move will help set you up for success.

There is often a way to arrange temporary financing to cover both homes, but the big question is does it make sense to move forward if you are madly in love with the home? Only you can make that decision.

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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When Wildfires Interrupt Your Home Purchase: What Every Buyer Needs to Know

By Tracy Head • August 10, 2026
For many Canadians, buying a home is one of life's most exciting milestones. You've found the perfect property, negotiated an accepted offer, arranged financing, and started picturing where the furniture will go. Then, almost overnight, Mother Nature throws a curveball. A wildfire starts nearby. As someone who has spent many years helping Canadians navigate home financing, I've seen firsthand how quickly a wildfire can change what seemed like a straightforward transaction. The good news is that many purchases still close successfully—but it's important to understand how these situations can affect everyone involved. One of the most important concepts in a real estate contract is something called force majeure . While the exact wording varies depending on the contract, a force majeure clause generally recognizes that extraordinary events beyond anyone's control—such as natural disasters—may temporarily prevent one or more parties from fulfilling their contractual obligations. If evacuation orders are issued, government offices close, roads become inaccessible, or lawyers, lenders, appraisers, or buyers simply cannot complete the necessary steps to transfer ownership, a force majeure clause may allow the closing date to be postponed until those circumstances have passed. It doesn't automatically cancel the sale, but it can provide valuable flexibility during an unpredictable situation. This is one of the reasons it's so important to stay in close communication with your mortgage broker, REALTOR®, lawyer, and lender. Everyone needs to understand what's happening so adjustments can be made if necessary. One issue that catches many buyers by surprise is home insurance. Most lenders require proof of insurance before they will release mortgage funds. During wildfire season, insurance companies sometimes place temporary restrictions or even stop issuing new policies altogether for homes located in high-risk areas. If you've waited until the last few days before possession to arrange your insurance, you could suddenly discover that coverage isn't immediately available. Without insurance, your lender may be unable to advance your mortgage funds, potentially delaying your closing. My advice is simple: purchase your home insurance as early as your insurer will allow. Having coverage arranged well in advance greatly reduces the chance of running into last-minute surprises if wildfire conditions change. It's one of those tasks that's easy to move to the bottom of the list until it suddenly becomes the most important item on it. Wildfires can also create a ripple effect that extends well beyond the property you're purchasing. Imagine you're buying a home in one community because your current home has sold and is scheduled to close first. Everything is carefully timed. Then a wildfire threatens your existing neighbourhood. Perhaps your buyers are unable to obtain insurance. Maybe their lender won't fund the mortgage until conditions improve. Or perhaps the buyers simply cannot complete the purchase because of evacuation orders. If the sale of your current home is delayed, you may no longer have the funds available to complete the purchase of your next home. That can create a chain reaction affecting multiple transactions, sometimes involving several families. These situations are stressful, but they also highlight why real estate professionals, lenders, and lawyers work so hard together when unexpected events occur. Everyone's goal is usually the same - to find a practical solution that allows the transaction to move forward once circumstances permit. If you're buying or selling during wildfire season, don't be afraid to ask questions. Understand how your contract addresses unforeseen events. Arrange your insurance early. Keep your financing documents up to date. Most importantly, stay in regular contact with your mortgage broker and the rest of your professional team. Wildfires are unpredictable. Preparation isn't. While none of us can control the weather, we can control how prepared we are when unexpected challenges arise. A little planning today may make all the difference tomorrow, helping ensure that when the smoke clears, you're still on track to receive the keys to your new home.
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Your Mortgage Is Approved... Now What? The Final Steps Before You Get the Keys

By Tracy Head • July 24, 2026
One of my favourite phone calls to make is telling a client, "Congratulations! Your mortgage has been approved." It's a huge milestone and one worth celebrating. But many buyers are surprised to learn that there are still several important steps between receiving that approval and standing in the doorway of their new home with keys in hand. The final few weeks before possession can be busy, emotional, and occasionally overwhelming. Having a plan makes the process much smoother. Stay in touch with your mortgage broker. Even after financing is approved, your broker is still working behind the scenes with your lender and your lawyer to make sure everything is ready for closing. If anything changes with your employment, income, debts, or banking before possession day, let your broker know immediately. It is always better to have a conversation early than to discover a problem at the last minute. Watch for communication from your lawyer or notary. Your lawyer will contact you to schedule your signing appointment, usually several days before your possession date. Don't wait until the last minute to book this appointment, especially during busy times of the year when legal offices are handling many transactions. Your lawyer will also provide a statement showing exactly how much money you need to bring to closing. This includes your down payment (if it hasn't already been paid), closing costs, legal fees, property tax adjustments, and other applicable expenses. Be sure to ask your lawyer what form of payment they require. Most will request a bank draft or certified funds, and you'll want to allow yourself enough time to obtain those from your financial institution. Get your down payment ready. One of the most common causes of unnecessary stress is scrambling to move funds at the last minute. If your down payment is coming from investments, an RRSP through the Home Buyers' Plan, another financial institution, or the sale of another property, make sure those funds are available well before your lawyer's deadline. Some investments require several business days to redeem, and transferring money between institutions can take longer than many people expect. Arrange your insurance. Your lender will require proof that the home is insured before they release your mortgage funds. Contact your insurance broker early so there is plenty of time to arrange coverage beginning on your possession date. Book the movers sooner rather than later. Professional movers often book weeks—or even months—in advance, particularly during the busy spring and summer moving season or at month-end. Whether you're hiring movers or borrowing your friend's pickup truck, having a moving plan in place early will save you a lot of stress. Transfer your utilities. Nothing takes the excitement out of moving day quite like discovering the electricity hasn't been connected. Arrange to transfer or activate services such as electricity, natural gas, water, internet, television, garbage collection, and any security monitoring before possession day. Some providers require advance notice, so don't leave these calls until the final week. Update your address. Changing your address is one of those jobs that's easy to forget until important mail starts arriving at your old home. Take time to update your address with: Canada Post Your employer Banks and credit card companies Insurance providers CRA Your driver's licence and vehicle registration (according to your province's requirements) Medical providers Subscription services Family and friends A simple checklist can prevent a surprising number of headaches later. Don't underestimate the emotions. Buying a home is one of the largest financial decisions most Canadians will ever make. Even when everything is going perfectly, it's completely normal to experience a wide range of emotions. Excitement. Anxiety. Second-guessing. Relief. Even a little panic. I've seen first-time buyers worry they've forgotten something important. I've seen families leaving homes where they raised children feel unexpectedly emotional. I've seen retirees excited about a fresh start while also grieving the chapter they're leaving behind. These feelings are all perfectly normal. A home purchase isn't just a financial transaction—it's a life transition. Give yourself permission to feel both excited and sentimental. Both can exist at the same time. The finish line is worth it. The days leading up to possession often feel like a whirlwind of paperwork, packing boxes, phone calls, and checklists. But before long, you'll be unlocking your front door, carrying in that first box, and beginning a brand-new chapter. As mortgage brokers, we're proud to help clients secure financing. But we're just as proud to help guide them through the entire journey—from the first conversation about affordability to the moment they finally receive the keys. After all, mortgage approval isn't the end of the process.  It's the beginning of your next adventure.