Emotional Mortgaging

Tracy Head • May 19, 2023

For the last few months I have felt a bit of a return to normal in the mortgage world. Fixed rates have

been trending down and we’ve seen some great rate specials available. More importantly, it has felt like a more balanced market where people are taking a bit more time to do their due diligence and make more educated and thoughtful (as opposed to emotional / panicked) decisions about their home

purchases.


The last few weeks I’ve felt a subtle shift. The housing market is starting to heat up a little, in that I’ve seen a few situations where there are multiple competing offers. Inventory still seems a little low which is likely fuelling  this. I have been dealing with two families that have taken completely different approaches. The first family is looking to right-size their home and move from a condo to a single family home. They already have two littles and a third on the way. They are wanting more space and a better neighbourhood to raise their children in.


They wrote an offer on a lovely home before they looked into their mortgage options. They came to me with an accepted offer and are madly in love with the home they wrote the offer on. They are willing to move heaven and earth to make it happen. The challenge is that they have not had an offer on their condo yet. They both make great income and have investments that will cover the necessary down payment. The trick is that if they have haven’t sold and have to move forward with their purchase they will have to use a private lender to make it happen because their ratios are too high carrying both properties.


Two years ago I might not have been so concerned but with the market being a bit slower there is

significant risk that their condo might not sell in the time frame they need it to.


If this happens and they choose to go the private lender route, they are looking at roughly $20,000 in

fees and closing costs and an interest rate of ten per cent. Monthly payments are $4400.00. They will not be able to rent out their condo because of restrictions in their strata. With strata, property taxes, and their mortgage payment they are looking at about $2600.00 per month. If they end up having to carry both of the mortgages for more than a few months they are going to burn through their savings very quickly. They may end up having to drop the price of the condo significantly which means they might take a loss on the condo as their mortgage balance is close to the break even mark after realtor fees.


They are determined to move forward regardless and quite honestly it concerns me. Another family I am working with has taken a different view. Similar situation and they can more than cover both mortgages if they have to. They have done a very thoughtful analysis of their finances and lifestyle and have taken the approach that it will all come together if it is meant to, and that if their current home doesn’t sell they will not put themselves in jeopardy to buy this particular home.


This approach makes me much more comfortable. What is the danger in the first situation? If for some reason they do move forward and their condo doesn’t sell for several months I don’t think they will be able to afford the payments on both homes. If they fall behind they will have no buffer left and could potentially end up in foreclosure. Maybe it doesn’t get that drastic, but the stress of carrying both properties will be overwhelming.


Before you write an offer on a home, I cannot stress how important it is to connect with a mortgage

professional to get your financial ducks in a row. Knowing what you qualify for (and if you qualify for

that matter) and the costs of making a move will help set you up for success.

There is often a way to arrange temporary financing to cover both homes, but the big question is does it make sense to move forward if you are madly in love with the home? Only you can make that decision.

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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Read your mortgage paperwork.

By Tracy Head • 03 May, 2024
Sharing this situation as a reminder of the importance of reading the fine print. I have been working on a refinance at renewal for clients in northern BC. They had tried to sell their home but their acreage is unique so they did not have any offers. Their home sat on the market for over a year and their mortgage was coming up for renewal. In the meantime life happened. They were at limit on multiple credit cards and credit limits and were stretched pretty thin. Work slowed for a bit so his income was down and they had a new baby so she was on maternity leave. They did have a significant amount of equity in their home so the plan was made to consolidate their debt to improve cash flow for the short term. We got an approval with a great rate. So far, so good. The approval stipulated that most of their credit cards and lines of credit would be closed. I had submitted the application specifying which ones were to be left open and which were to be closed. When the mortgage commitment came from the lender I double-checked the list and all was in order. The lender pulled the clients’ credit reports about two weeks before closing and came back with a few changes because they were now over limit on two more cards. The clients went to the lawyers and learned that the new lender wanted an additional credit card closed. This particular card was one they used for rewards points so they were not willing to close that specific card. They discovered this change when they were signing with the lawyer two days prior to their scheduled closing date. I became aware of this the morning their mortgage should have finalized. Their lawyer had told them it wasn’t an issue and that she would sort it out, but the lender was unwilling to compromise on this. The clients called me and were very frustrated. After several calls back and forth with the lender and the client we were able to reconfigure their file a bit so that card stayed open and another credit line was closed. So where does reading your mortgage paperwork come in? Most people thing that once they sign their original documents from their mortgage person that their financing is set in stone. In point of fact, there is always fine print that includes something to say that any material change to the clients’ financial situation may cause their financing to be altered or cancelled. A wise broker I know shared a list of Ten Mortgage Commandments with me in my early days. It laid out ten things you should never do between the time your mortgage is approved and the time it finalizes. It included things like you should not change jobs, buy a new vehicle, co-sign for any loans, spend your down payment, go over limit on your credit cards, etc. At the time I remember thinking to myself that the list was so condescending that I would never share it with clients. After many years and interesting scenarios as a broker I go over this list with almost every client. If you think no one would do those things I can assure you I’ve seen it happen. In this situation we were able to sort things out and their mortgage funded the next day. If you run into something similar at the last minute, loop your mortgage person in. They will likely have no idea that things are happening behind the scenes and they are in the best position to help you navigate through it. Our goal is to help you have a smooth experience so we are here all the way through the process. Part of my practice is to connect with my clients’ legal representatives so that they have my contact information in case anything like this pops up last minute. Clients often don’t know that they can reach out for help, and the lawyers may not think to ask. Should something like this happen to you at closing time, take a deep breath and reach out to your mortgage person. It may be very simple to solve when the right people are helping.

Procrastination

By Tracy Head • 19 Apr, 2024
This morning I was up with the birds (literally) and really wanted to sleep a bit longer. I decided to listen to a podcast rather than get up. The podcast, ironically, was about procrastination.  Her general message was that procrastinating often makes us feel bad. There are things we want to accomplish or feel we should do but we choose the immediate gratification / dopamine hit of time in front of the TV or mindless scrolling (or more time in bed) rather than the satisfaction that comes with achieving our larger goals and dreams. She talked about procrastinating with both our actions and making decisions. The irony that I was listening to the podcast rather than getting up and tackling my day was not lost on me. There were a few comments the podcaster made that struck home. Making a decision, any decision, is better than no decision. Human nature (for many of us) is that when facing a tough decision we freeze. We over-analyze the “what-ifs” and potential outcomes. We worry about what others may think of our choices. We may not even know what our options are. While procrastinating opportunities are lost or we dig ourselves in a bit deeper. The last year in particular has been challenging with higher interest rates and a steadily increasing cost of living. Many families are struggling to cover their bills and put food on the table. I’ve written columns before about how if you have equity in your home it might be wise to consider a consolidation of your consumer debt to free up cash flow. Making lifestyle changes can be easier said than done. I believe that staying the course and getting your mortgage paid off as soon as possible is always the best plan, but there comes a time when you also need to look at how your finances are affecting your physical and mental health. When we get behind with our bills or are teetering on the edge of not being able to cover everything this month we are also concerned about what people might think. We are worried about a call from our creditors asking for a payment. We project a certain lifestyle and feel the pressure to maintain this even though we can’t actually afford it right now. We lose sleep at night thinking about the “what-ifs”. If you are in this situation and have equity in your home, I encourage you to take action to explore your options sooner rather than later. I have worked with clients who have never missed a payment ever but their credit scores were in the 500 range (not good) because they are over-extended and maxed out on multiple loans, credit cards and / or credit lines. Had they reached out sooner we would have had more options to help them with a fresh start. This doesn’t mean we can’t find options, but there are certainly more available when credit scores are higher. As a rule I don’t get into the discussion of why you would work with a mortgage broker versus a bank but this is one of those times. I do place many of my clients with chartered banks when that is the right fit. When you approach your bank your situation might not be a fit for their lending guidelines. They may tell you they are not able to help you and that you will have to sell your home or look at a consumer proposal or bankruptcy. Selling your home may be the right answer, but before you jump to that place take a look at other options. Pick up the phone. Don’t procrastinate. If you are working with a mortgage broker they are able to explore multiple lenders and programs to help you try to find a solution to put you on the right track sooner rather than later.
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