Emotional Mortgaging

Tracy Head • May 19, 2023

For the last few months I have felt a bit of a return to normal in the mortgage world. Fixed rates have

been trending down and we’ve seen some great rate specials available. More importantly, it has felt like a more balanced market where people are taking a bit more time to do their due diligence and make more educated and thoughtful (as opposed to emotional / panicked) decisions about their home

purchases.


The last few weeks I’ve felt a subtle shift. The housing market is starting to heat up a little, in that I’ve seen a few situations where there are multiple competing offers. Inventory still seems a little low which is likely fuelling  this. I have been dealing with two families that have taken completely different approaches. The first family is looking to right-size their home and move from a condo to a single family home. They already have two littles and a third on the way. They are wanting more space and a better neighbourhood to raise their children in.


They wrote an offer on a lovely home before they looked into their mortgage options. They came to me with an accepted offer and are madly in love with the home they wrote the offer on. They are willing to move heaven and earth to make it happen. The challenge is that they have not had an offer on their condo yet. They both make great income and have investments that will cover the necessary down payment. The trick is that if they have haven’t sold and have to move forward with their purchase they will have to use a private lender to make it happen because their ratios are too high carrying both properties.


Two years ago I might not have been so concerned but with the market being a bit slower there is

significant risk that their condo might not sell in the time frame they need it to.


If this happens and they choose to go the private lender route, they are looking at roughly $20,000 in

fees and closing costs and an interest rate of ten per cent. Monthly payments are $4400.00. They will not be able to rent out their condo because of restrictions in their strata. With strata, property taxes, and their mortgage payment they are looking at about $2600.00 per month. If they end up having to carry both of the mortgages for more than a few months they are going to burn through their savings very quickly. They may end up having to drop the price of the condo significantly which means they might take a loss on the condo as their mortgage balance is close to the break even mark after realtor fees.


They are determined to move forward regardless and quite honestly it concerns me. Another family I am working with has taken a different view. Similar situation and they can more than cover both mortgages if they have to. They have done a very thoughtful analysis of their finances and lifestyle and have taken the approach that it will all come together if it is meant to, and that if their current home doesn’t sell they will not put themselves in jeopardy to buy this particular home.


This approach makes me much more comfortable. What is the danger in the first situation? If for some reason they do move forward and their condo doesn’t sell for several months I don’t think they will be able to afford the payments on both homes. If they fall behind they will have no buffer left and could potentially end up in foreclosure. Maybe it doesn’t get that drastic, but the stress of carrying both properties will be overwhelming.


Before you write an offer on a home, I cannot stress how important it is to connect with a mortgage

professional to get your financial ducks in a row. Knowing what you qualify for (and if you qualify for

that matter) and the costs of making a move will help set you up for success.

There is often a way to arrange temporary financing to cover both homes, but the big question is does it make sense to move forward if you are madly in love with the home? Only you can make that decision.

Tracy Head

Mortgage Broker

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Marital Breakdown

By Tracy Head • October 18, 2025
One topic I haven’t tackled for a long time is marital breakdowns. When you are working your way through what is arguably one of the most difficult times of your adult life it’s important to know that you have options. There is a program available for refinancing your home specifically for spousal buyouts. Under this program we can refinance your home back up to 95 per cent of the value of the home and use the new funds to pay out your ex-partner and pay out marital debts (provided this is written into your separation agreement). Qualifying this to say that we can refinance to 95 per cent if the value of your home is under $500,000. If the value of your home is over $500,000 we need to ensure you have 5 per cent of the first $500,000 and 10 per cent of any value over the $500,000 left as equity in your home. It’s a small distinction but in the Okanagan the second calculation is the one I see the most. With recent changes to the First Time Home Buyer’s program we can now extend the amortization out as far as 30 years if needed to make the numbers work. It is important to note that this program is an insured program meaning that a premium is added to your mortgage so its important that you work with someone who is familiar with this program. You will require a finalized separation agreement to refinance to pay out the other party.  If you have significant equity in your home and we can make the numbers work a traditional refinance is also an option. In this case we can only increase your mortgage to 80 per cent of the value of your home but there is no default insurance premium required so this is usually the preferable option. A question to ask yourself is whether it makes sense to refinance your current home or to sell and buy a new home. The list of pros and cons will be different for each person, but one of the most important things to consider is whether or not you can afford the higher mortgage payment on your own to stay put. Also key to consider is whether or not you need the same space or whether downsizing might be another option. Do you have children that you want to keep in the same area and same school? Is your current home in a convenient location for work, school, and social activities? Or are you needing a fresh start somewhere new? If you find yourself in this situation and are considering your options with respect to refinancing your home I encourage you to reach out to a professional that can help you take a good hard look at your situation. Doing a bit of legwork upfront may help relieve at least one part of the mental load as you work your way through a separation or divorce.

Is this the right time to buy a home?

By Tracy Head • October 4, 2025
Is this the right time to buy a home? Who has your best interests at heart? Buying a home can be either an incredibly exciting experience or a very stressful time. Or it can be a combination of both. Part of the challenge can be committing to the decision to move forward with buying a home. How do you know if you are ready? How do you know if this is the right time to buy? I love working with first-time home buyers. I particularly love when they reach out well ahead of time to do their research and get their ducks in a row. I have been working with one such young lady. She has been watching for the right home to pop up. She fell in love with one of the listings that she viewed and moved forward with an offer. She reached out to her investment advisor to make arrangements to move the funds she needed for her deposit from her investments to her bank account. Oddly he did not reply to her three phone calls nor multiple emails. She was forced to walk into his office to deal with this. When she got there he essentially told her she was foolish for buying a home. She should leave her funds in her investments and continue to save with him. She agonized for a few days and ultimately collapsed her offer. He told her that this house, over the long run, was going to cost her $1,000,000. The purchase price was $650,000. The total of the purchase price plus interest over the long run seemed like an astronomical sum. He persuaded her that she would be better off continuing to rent and that at the end of the same time period she would have over $1,000,000 in her investment account. That’s all well and good in theory. In the meantime she still needs a place to live. And there are no guarantees as to what investments will do over time, nor what property values will do. I did some math to see what this actually looked like long term. We have to make some assumptions that the financial advisor is good at what he does and that her investments will do well over the long term. As a rule real estate appreciates over time and rent increases over time. That being said, here is the math I did. Making some assumptions that the mortgage rate stays the same and your rent never increases: $2400 rent per month x 360 months (30 years) = $864,000 $2833 per month mortgage payment x 360 months = 1,019,880 (monthly payments / I suggest you go bi-weekly to pay off quicker) At the end of 30 years renting you have nothing to show for the $864,000 you’ve paid out. At the end of 30 years paying your mortgage you will have a home free and clear – normally real estate increases in value over time so in theory it will be worth way more than what you’ve paid. If you wait another year to buy $2400 x 12 = $28,800 towards someone else’s mortgage. Here’s the wild card. If you choose to rent and choose to invest in a portfolio instead of buying, even if your portfolio is worth $1,000,000 at the end of the same time frame you need to subtract the $864,000 you paid in rent. This leaves you with a net gain of $136,000. If you had purchased a home, your payments of $1,019,880 would be offset by the value of the home you purchased. In this case, assuming no change in value, you now have a home worth $650,000 paid off. The wild card to run these comparisons is how much you need to invest monthly to accumulate the $1,000,000. Either way, you are making this payment on top of your rent payment. Another wild card of course is what property values and investment portfolios do over time. We know rent will continue to increase and mortgage rates will change but I think it warrants looking at this from another perspective. I am not a proponent of aggressive scare tactics so was disappointed in how this advisor handled his conversation with her.  Some people are more cautious with their financial plans and I appreciate that. Being certain about your long-term goals will help you navigate the path forward that suits your own situation. Make sure you have trusted people in your corner as you make these big life decisions.