Mortgages and Tinder

Tracy Head • March 10, 2023
What do the two have to do with each other? This week I learned a new term – Tinder Swindler...


This comes from a Netflix movie about a fellow in Europe who duped numerous women out of money by borrowing funds with promises to repay them. This is a con that has been around forever in different forms but the increased prominence of online dating has really extended the hunting grounds for people that are looking for their next mark. In the olden days (like when I was young) this scam looked more like a wealthy older man being taken advantage of by a much younger woman. This was the stereotype in any case. This profile has now changed and the swindlers come in many different forms and of all ages. Although what follows is going to feel like I’m hammering one gender over the other, believe me the con comes from both genders. My hunch is that when men have fallen prey to these scams pride prevents them from disclosing.


Over the last few weeks years I have worked with three different women who have been conned out of thousands of dollars by men they met through online dating portals. In all three cases these are strong, independent women who work hard and have always taken care of business. All three own their own homes and have great jobs and clean credit. The game starts easily enough. They each met someone who seemed like a great partner. He was charming, caring, and seemed to have his act together. One case started with a request to borrow cash as the partner was in a bit of a jam. Then, in all three cases, for one reason or another the new partner couldn’t seem to hold down a job. In one case the partner was starting a new business and just needed some cash to get things off the ground. In one case the new partner used her computer to apply for additional credit and intercepted the mail before she knew she had new cards coming. It goes without saying that in all three cases the women are left holding the bag with no hope of recovering any of the money they are owed.


For two of these women we were able to refinance their homes to consolidate all of their debts, but for

the third she found herself in the horribly difficult position of having to sell her home. After three years

of hard work she was able to buy a home again but this was definitely a huge hit to her retirement plans.

Before you are tempted to judge these women for allowing themselves to be victimized, understand

that none of the three are stupid women. They were trusting to a fault, and never thought for a minute

that their partner was anything other than the front that they saw. This is intended as a cautionary tale. If you are early on in a relationship and your new partner is looking to borrow money or asking for you to apply for credit on their behalf, open your eyes.


Trust your gut. Question why they are in the situation they are in. Get the details. Don’t be afraid of difficult conversations to get to the truth. Life happens to us all, and sometimes things are as they seem. However, if you are in a relatively new relationship and your partner is looking for money … think long and hard. It’s a slippery slope. One woman said to me “In for a penny, in for a pound. I kept hoping things would turn around and if I held out he would pay me back. In fact it just cost me more money.”

If you find yourself in this situation, I urge you to make a move and get help sooner rather than later. There are often options you are not aware of so you need to make changes as soon as possible so your credit and financial situation are not compromised.


On a different note, if you own a home you should have received mail from the provincial government asking you to complete a declaration regarding the Speculation Tax. Make sure you take care of it before the March 31 2023 deadline or you may receive a tax bill of up to two per cent of the value of your home.

Tracy Head

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The Road to Mortgage Freedom: How You Can Pay Off Your Mortgage Sooner

By Tracy Head • August 21, 2026
After years in the mortgage business, one of the questions I hear most often from homeowners is, “How can I get this mortgage paid off sooner?” It’s a good question. A mortgage may be considered “good debt” because it helps us buy a home, but that doesn’t mean anyone wants to be making mortgage payments for the full 25 or 30 years if they can avoid it. The good news is that most Canadian mortgages give homeowners several ways to accelerate their payments and reduce the amount of interest they pay over the life of the mortgage. The key is understanding how your mortgage works and making use of the prepayment privileges that are already built into your contract. Start by understanding amortization First, it’s important to distinguish between your mortgage term and your amortization. Your term is the length of time your current mortgage agreement and interest rate are in place. Five years is a common mortgage term. Your amortization is the total length of time it would take to pay off the mortgage if you simply made the required payments and did nothing extra. A 25-year amortization is very common. You don't have to wait 25 years to become mortgage-free. There are several strategies that can shorten that timeline considerably. Increase your regular payments The simplest strategy is often the one that gets overlooked: increase your regular payment. If your mortgage payment is $2,500 and you increase it to $2,750, that additional $250 is going toward your mortgage balance. As the principal comes down, you pay less interest over time. Most Canadian banks offer some form of annual payment increase privilege on closed mortgages. A common privilege is the ability to increase your regular payment by 10 per cent, although some lenders offer more. That means a homeowner doesn't necessarily have to wait for a large windfall to make a difference. Increasing the payment by a manageable amount can gradually have a significant impact. Make a lump-sum payment Another popular option is a lump-sum prepayment. Perhaps you receive a work bonus, a tax refund, an inheritance or proceeds from the sale of an investment. Instead of spending all of it, you can put some of that money directly against your mortgage principal. Many Canadian lenders allow homeowners to make an annual lump-sum payment without a penalty. A common privilege is 10 per cent of the original mortgage amount, although some lenders allow 15, 20 or even more. For example, on a $500,000 mortgage, a 10 per cent annual prepayment privilege could allow you to put $50,000 directly against the mortgage without a prepayment penalty. That's a pretty powerful tool. Of course, every mortgage contract is different, so it's important to check the exact privilege before making a large payment. Take advantage of payment frequency This brings us to one of the most common questions I get: What's the difference between bi-weekly and accelerated bi-weekly payments? The difference is bigger than many people realize. Let's use a $500,000 mortgage at 3.99 per cent with a 25-year amortization as an example. The monthly payment would be approximately $2,630. A regular bi-weekly payment takes that monthly payment, multiplies it by 12 and divides it by 26. That works out to approximately $1,214 every two weeks. Because there are 26 bi-weekly payments in a year, you're essentially making the equivalent of 12 monthly payments over the course of the year. Now let's look at accelerated bi-weekly payments. Instead of taking the monthly payment and converting it to a bi-weekly payment, the lender simply divides the monthly payment in half. $2,630 divided by two gives us an accelerated bi-weekly payment of approximately $1,315. Here's where the difference becomes important. You're making 26 payments of $1,315, which works out to approximately $34,190 per year. With regular bi-weekly payments, you're making 26 payments of approximately $1,214, or about $31,564 per year. That's a difference of roughly $2,630 a year — essentially one extra monthly mortgage payment. And that extra payment goes directly toward getting the mortgage paid down faster. The numbers at a glance
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When Wildfires Interrupt Your Home Purchase: What Every Buyer Needs to Know

By Tracy Head • August 10, 2026
For many Canadians, buying a home is one of life's most exciting milestones. You've found the perfect property, negotiated an accepted offer, arranged financing, and started picturing where the furniture will go. Then, almost overnight, Mother Nature throws a curveball. A wildfire starts nearby. As someone who has spent many years helping Canadians navigate home financing, I've seen firsthand how quickly a wildfire can change what seemed like a straightforward transaction. The good news is that many purchases still close successfully—but it's important to understand how these situations can affect everyone involved. One of the most important concepts in a real estate contract is something called force majeure . While the exact wording varies depending on the contract, a force majeure clause generally recognizes that extraordinary events beyond anyone's control—such as natural disasters—may temporarily prevent one or more parties from fulfilling their contractual obligations. If evacuation orders are issued, government offices close, roads become inaccessible, or lawyers, lenders, appraisers, or buyers simply cannot complete the necessary steps to transfer ownership, a force majeure clause may allow the closing date to be postponed until those circumstances have passed. It doesn't automatically cancel the sale, but it can provide valuable flexibility during an unpredictable situation. This is one of the reasons it's so important to stay in close communication with your mortgage broker, REALTOR®, lawyer, and lender. Everyone needs to understand what's happening so adjustments can be made if necessary. One issue that catches many buyers by surprise is home insurance. Most lenders require proof of insurance before they will release mortgage funds. During wildfire season, insurance companies sometimes place temporary restrictions or even stop issuing new policies altogether for homes located in high-risk areas. If you've waited until the last few days before possession to arrange your insurance, you could suddenly discover that coverage isn't immediately available. Without insurance, your lender may be unable to advance your mortgage funds, potentially delaying your closing. My advice is simple: purchase your home insurance as early as your insurer will allow. Having coverage arranged well in advance greatly reduces the chance of running into last-minute surprises if wildfire conditions change. It's one of those tasks that's easy to move to the bottom of the list until it suddenly becomes the most important item on it. Wildfires can also create a ripple effect that extends well beyond the property you're purchasing. Imagine you're buying a home in one community because your current home has sold and is scheduled to close first. Everything is carefully timed. Then a wildfire threatens your existing neighbourhood. Perhaps your buyers are unable to obtain insurance. Maybe their lender won't fund the mortgage until conditions improve. Or perhaps the buyers simply cannot complete the purchase because of evacuation orders. If the sale of your current home is delayed, you may no longer have the funds available to complete the purchase of your next home. That can create a chain reaction affecting multiple transactions, sometimes involving several families. These situations are stressful, but they also highlight why real estate professionals, lenders, and lawyers work so hard together when unexpected events occur. Everyone's goal is usually the same - to find a practical solution that allows the transaction to move forward once circumstances permit. If you're buying or selling during wildfire season, don't be afraid to ask questions. Understand how your contract addresses unforeseen events. Arrange your insurance early. Keep your financing documents up to date. Most importantly, stay in regular contact with your mortgage broker and the rest of your professional team. Wildfires are unpredictable. Preparation isn't. While none of us can control the weather, we can control how prepared we are when unexpected challenges arise. A little planning today may make all the difference tomorrow, helping ensure that when the smoke clears, you're still on track to receive the keys to your new home.