Mortgages and Tinder

Tracy Head • March 10, 2023
What do the two have to do with each other? This week I learned a new term – Tinder Swindler...


This comes from a Netflix movie about a fellow in Europe who duped numerous women out of money by borrowing funds with promises to repay them. This is a con that has been around forever in different forms but the increased prominence of online dating has really extended the hunting grounds for people that are looking for their next mark. In the olden days (like when I was young) this scam looked more like a wealthy older man being taken advantage of by a much younger woman. This was the stereotype in any case. This profile has now changed and the swindlers come in many different forms and of all ages. Although what follows is going to feel like I’m hammering one gender over the other, believe me the con comes from both genders. My hunch is that when men have fallen prey to these scams pride prevents them from disclosing.


Over the last few weeks years I have worked with three different women who have been conned out of thousands of dollars by men they met through online dating portals. In all three cases these are strong, independent women who work hard and have always taken care of business. All three own their own homes and have great jobs and clean credit. The game starts easily enough. They each met someone who seemed like a great partner. He was charming, caring, and seemed to have his act together. One case started with a request to borrow cash as the partner was in a bit of a jam. Then, in all three cases, for one reason or another the new partner couldn’t seem to hold down a job. In one case the partner was starting a new business and just needed some cash to get things off the ground. In one case the new partner used her computer to apply for additional credit and intercepted the mail before she knew she had new cards coming. It goes without saying that in all three cases the women are left holding the bag with no hope of recovering any of the money they are owed.


For two of these women we were able to refinance their homes to consolidate all of their debts, but for

the third she found herself in the horribly difficult position of having to sell her home. After three years

of hard work she was able to buy a home again but this was definitely a huge hit to her retirement plans.

Before you are tempted to judge these women for allowing themselves to be victimized, understand

that none of the three are stupid women. They were trusting to a fault, and never thought for a minute

that their partner was anything other than the front that they saw. This is intended as a cautionary tale. If you are early on in a relationship and your new partner is looking to borrow money or asking for you to apply for credit on their behalf, open your eyes.


Trust your gut. Question why they are in the situation they are in. Get the details. Don’t be afraid of difficult conversations to get to the truth. Life happens to us all, and sometimes things are as they seem. However, if you are in a relatively new relationship and your partner is looking for money … think long and hard. It’s a slippery slope. One woman said to me “In for a penny, in for a pound. I kept hoping things would turn around and if I held out he would pay me back. In fact it just cost me more money.”

If you find yourself in this situation, I urge you to make a move and get help sooner rather than later. There are often options you are not aware of so you need to make changes as soon as possible so your credit and financial situation are not compromised.


On a different note, if you own a home you should have received mail from the provincial government asking you to complete a declaration regarding the Speculation Tax. Make sure you take care of it before the March 31 2023 deadline or you may receive a tax bill of up to two per cent of the value of your home.

Tracy Head

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Importance of a PreApproval

By Tracy Head • May 16, 2026
There’s a moment I see all the time in this business. A buyer walks into an open house “just to look,” falls completely in love with the place, and by supper time they’re talking about writing an offer. It’s exciting. It’s emotional. And sometimes, it’s exactly where people get themselves into trouble. I can tell you one of the smartest things a buyer can do before house hunting is get a proper mortgage pre-approval in place. Not the casual “I think we qualify for around this amount” conversation. I mean an actual reviewed pre-approval with income, down payment, credit, and monthly budget all looked at carefully. Because once you’re standing in someone else’s dream kitchen imagining where your coffee maker will go, logic has a funny way of leaving the building. A pre-approval does a few very important things. First, it tells you what a lender is likely willing to lend you. That sounds obvious, but many buyers are shocked to discover that what they want to spend and what the bank is comfortable approving are two very different numbers. Second, it helps you shop with confidence. In competitive markets, sellers take pre-approved buyers much more seriously. A seller who has two similar offers in front of them will almost always feel more comfortable with the buyer who already has financing lined up. But here’s the part I think matters even more — a pre-approval gives you the chance to figure out what home ownership will actually feel like every month. And this is where many people make a mistake. They focus only on the mortgage payment. The mortgage payment is important, of course, but it’s only one piece of the puzzle. Before writing an offer, buyers should sit down and calculate the total monthly cost of the home. That means including: Mortgage payment Property taxes City utilities Home insurance Strata fees, if applicable Heating costs Potential maintenance expenses Because the difference between “technically approved” and “comfortably affordable” can be huge. Let’s use a simple example. Suppose you purchase a home for $650,000 with a reasonable down payment. At current interest rates, your mortgage payment might land somewhere around $3,100 per month. At first glance, that may seem manageable. But then we add: Property taxes: $350/month Utilities: $200/month Home insurance: $140/month Strata fees: $450/month Suddenly the true monthly housing cost is closer to $4,240 per month. That’s a very different conversation. And if you haven’t done those calculations ahead of time, you may find yourself house-rich and lifestyle-poor after possession day. I often tell clients this: your home should support your life, not consume it. You still want room for groceries, kids’ sports, travel, retirement savings, and the occasional dinner out where nobody has to do dishes afterward. Another benefit of getting pre-approved early is discovering issues before they become emergencies. Sometimes we uncover small credit issues, missing documents, or income challenges that can be fixed with a little planning and time. It’s much better to solve those things before you fall in love with a home than three days before financing conditions are due. And please remember — just because a lender says you qualify for a certain amount does not mean you have to spend that much. Some of the happiest homeowners I know bought below their maximum approval and left themselves breathing room financially. Funny enough, those are usually the people sleeping best at night when interest rates rise or life throws a curveball. Buying a home should feel exciting, not terrifying. So before you start measuring living rooms for sectional sofas or debating paint colours, take the time to get a proper pre-approval completed and run the real monthly numbers carefully.  Future-you will be very grateful.

Owning vs. Renting: A Broker’s View from the Front Lines

By Tracy Head • May 4, 2026
After a couple of decades in the Canadian mortgage world, I’ve learned that the “rent vs. buy” debate isn’t really about right or wrong—it’s about timing, lifestyle, and how comfortable you are trading flexibility for long-term wealth building. Let’s walk through both sides with some real numbers, because that’s where the story gets interesting. The Case for Buying: Building Equity (and Stability) Let’s assume you purchase a home for $600,000 CAD with a 20% down payment ($120,000), leaving you with a $480,000 mortgage at a 4% interest rate , amortized over 25 years. Monthly mortgage payment: ≈ $2,530 First-year interest portion: roughly $19,000 First-year principal paydown: roughly $11,000 That principal portion is the quiet hero here. Every payment chips away at your loan and builds equity—essentially forced savings. Fast forward 5 years: You’ve paid down roughly $60,000–$70,000 in principal If the home appreciates at a modest 3% annually , your $600,000 home could be worth about $695,000 Your equity position: Original down payment: $120,000 Principal paid: ~$65,000 Appreciation: ~$95,000 Total equity: ~$280,000 That’s a meaningful wealth position built largely through time and discipline. Other advantages: Predictable housing costs (especially with a fixed rate) Protection against rising rents Freedom to renovate and personalize Leverage: you control a $600K asset with $120K down The Reality Check: The Costs of Ownership Owning isn’t just about the mortgage. On that same $600,000 home, you might also be looking at: Property taxes: $3,000–$4,000/year Maintenance: ~1% annually (~$6,000) Insurance: $1,500–$2,000/year So your true monthly cost isn’t $2,530—it’s closer to $3,200–$3,500 when everything’s factored in. And unlike rent, surprises are your responsibility. Roof leaks don’t call the landlord—they call your bank account. The Case for Renting: Flexibility and Liquidity Let’s say a comparable home rents for $2,500/month . Right away, you’re saving: ~$700–$1,000/month compared to owning (after ownership costs) Now here’s where renters can quietly win— if they’re disciplined . Investing the difference: If you invest $800/month at a conservative 5% annual return : After 5 years: ~$54,000 After 10 years: ~$125,000 Add to that your original $120,000 down payment (which you didn’t tie up in real estate), also invested: $120,000 at 5% over 5 years: ~$153,000 Total investment portfolio after 5 years: ~$207,000 That’s not far off the homeowner’s equity position—and it’s far more liquid. The Trade-Offs: It’s Not Just Math Here’s where the decision gets personal. Buying tends to win when: You plan to stay put for 5+ years You want stability and control You’re comfortable with maintenance and unexpected costs You value long-term wealth building through real estate Renting shines when: Your lifestyle or job requires flexibility You prefer predictable monthly costs You’re disciplined about investing savings You’re wary of market fluctuations or high entry prices A Final Thought from the Broker’s Desk I’ve seen clients build substantial wealth through homeownership—and I’ve seen others feel financially stretched because they bought too soon or too much house. On the flip side, I’ve met renters who quietly built six-figure investment portfolios… and others who simply spent the difference. The truth? Both paths can work beautifully—or poorly—depending on behaviour. If you’re buying, do it with a long-term mindset and a financial cushion.  If you’re renting, treat your savings like a mortgage payment to your future self. Either way, the goal isn’t just having a roof over your head—it’s making sure that roof supports the life you actually want to live.