Mortgages and Tinder

Tracy Head • March 10, 2023
What do the two have to do with each other? This week I learned a new term – Tinder Swindler...


This comes from a Netflix movie about a fellow in Europe who duped numerous women out of money by borrowing funds with promises to repay them. This is a con that has been around forever in different forms but the increased prominence of online dating has really extended the hunting grounds for people that are looking for their next mark. In the olden days (like when I was young) this scam looked more like a wealthy older man being taken advantage of by a much younger woman. This was the stereotype in any case. This profile has now changed and the swindlers come in many different forms and of all ages. Although what follows is going to feel like I’m hammering one gender over the other, believe me the con comes from both genders. My hunch is that when men have fallen prey to these scams pride prevents them from disclosing.


Over the last few weeks years I have worked with three different women who have been conned out of thousands of dollars by men they met through online dating portals. In all three cases these are strong, independent women who work hard and have always taken care of business. All three own their own homes and have great jobs and clean credit. The game starts easily enough. They each met someone who seemed like a great partner. He was charming, caring, and seemed to have his act together. One case started with a request to borrow cash as the partner was in a bit of a jam. Then, in all three cases, for one reason or another the new partner couldn’t seem to hold down a job. In one case the partner was starting a new business and just needed some cash to get things off the ground. In one case the new partner used her computer to apply for additional credit and intercepted the mail before she knew she had new cards coming. It goes without saying that in all three cases the women are left holding the bag with no hope of recovering any of the money they are owed.


For two of these women we were able to refinance their homes to consolidate all of their debts, but for

the third she found herself in the horribly difficult position of having to sell her home. After three years

of hard work she was able to buy a home again but this was definitely a huge hit to her retirement plans.

Before you are tempted to judge these women for allowing themselves to be victimized, understand

that none of the three are stupid women. They were trusting to a fault, and never thought for a minute

that their partner was anything other than the front that they saw. This is intended as a cautionary tale. If you are early on in a relationship and your new partner is looking to borrow money or asking for you to apply for credit on their behalf, open your eyes.


Trust your gut. Question why they are in the situation they are in. Get the details. Don’t be afraid of difficult conversations to get to the truth. Life happens to us all, and sometimes things are as they seem. However, if you are in a relatively new relationship and your partner is looking for money … think long and hard. It’s a slippery slope. One woman said to me “In for a penny, in for a pound. I kept hoping things would turn around and if I held out he would pay me back. In fact it just cost me more money.”

If you find yourself in this situation, I urge you to make a move and get help sooner rather than later. There are often options you are not aware of so you need to make changes as soon as possible so your credit and financial situation are not compromised.


On a different note, if you own a home you should have received mail from the provincial government asking you to complete a declaration regarding the Speculation Tax. Make sure you take care of it before the March 31 2023 deadline or you may receive a tax bill of up to two per cent of the value of your home.

Tracy Head

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By Tracy Head March 19, 2026
Hammer, Nails… and a Mortgage That Sees Potential Over the years I’ve noticed a pattern: buyers fall into two camps. The “this house is perfect” crowd… and the “this could be perfect if we just fix a few things” crowd. Today, we’re talking about the second group—and one of the most underused tools in the Canadian mortgage world: the purchase plus improvements mortgage. What Is It (and Why Should You Care)? A purchase plus improvements mortgage lets you roll renovation costs into your mortgage at the time of purchase. Instead of draining your savings—or worse, putting renovations on a high-interest line of credit—you finance those upgrades at your mortgage rate. In plain English: you buy the house and fix it up, all in one tidy package. You get to enjoy the renovations while you live in your home, rather than scrambling to renovate or update when you are getting ready to sell. Lenders like this because you're increasing the value of the home. You should like it because you're borrowing at (usually) the cheapest rate you'll ever get. Let’s say you’ve found a home priced at $700,000. It’s solid—but a little tired. You want to: Upgrade a dated bathroom Replace an aging furnace Put on a new roof Total improvement budget: $40,000 With a purchase plus improvements mortgage, your financing is based on the “as-improved” value, meaning: Purchase price: $700,000 Improvements: $40,000 Total financed value: $740,000 Because the purchase price exceeds $500,000, the minimum down payment in Canada is not 5% flat. It’s calculated as: 5% on the first $500,000 = $25,000 10% on the remaining $240,000 = $20,000 Minimum required down payment: $49,000 Mortgage Before Insurance Total value: $740,000 Down payment: $49,000 Base mortgage: $691,000 Adding the CMHC Insurance Premium Because your down payment is under 20%, mortgage default insurance applies. At this loan-to-value (roughly 93.4%), the CMHC premium is 4%. CMHC premium: $691,000 × 4% ≈ $27,640 This premium is typically added to the mortgage, not paid upfront. Total mortgage after insurance: ≈ $712,421 What Does That Payment Look Like? Now let’s plug that into real numbers: Mortgage: $712,421 Rate: 3.99% Amortization: 25 years Estimated monthly payment: ≈ $3,750–$3,760/month (call it $3,755/month for coffee-shop accuracy). Why This Still Makes Sense Here’s where people sometimes hesitate: “Wait—I’m paying insurance and financing renovations?” Yes. And in most cases, it still works in your favour. Because: You’re financing renovations at 3.99%, not 8–10%+ You’re improving the home’s value immediately You’re avoiding the markup baked into fully renovated homes In other words, you’re not just spending money—you’re strategically improving the value of your new home. How It Actually Works Behind the Scenes Here’s the part most buyers don’t realize: You submit quotes for the renovations upfront The lender approves the total (purchase + improvements) The purchase closes as usual The renovation funds are held back by your lawyer You complete the work Funds are released once the work is verified It’s a bit of paperwork—but compared to juggling contractors and separate financing? It’s a win. Why I Recommend This More Often Than You’d Think After years in this business, I can tell you this - the “perfect home” usually comes with a premium price tag. But the “almost perfect” home? That’s where the opportunity is. With a purchase plus improvements mortgage, you can sometimes: Buy in a better neighborhood Customize the home to your taste Avoid bidding wars on fully renovated properties Finance upgrades at mortgage rates (instead of 8–10%+ elsewhere) If you’re considering this route, here’s my advice: Get detailed quotes (not ballpark guesses) Plan for a buffer—renovations love surprises Work with a broker early (this is not a last-minute add-on) And most importantly: don’t be scared of a home that needs work. Some of the best purchases I’ve seen over the years started with the phrase, “Well… it’s not perfect, but…” Final Thought A purchase plus improvements mortgage isn’t just financing—it’s strategy. It’s the difference between settling for someone else’s vision… and building your own, from day one.  And in a market like Canada’s, that kind of flexibility isn’t just nice to have—it’s powerful.
By Tracy Head March 6, 2026
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